And You'll Be Walking On Air

You can’t know your soulmate unless you know your soul, so the search for your soulmate starts within yourself. You need to find your own wholeness and learn to truly love yourself before you can unite with them. Until you are ready, you may not recognize your true soulmate or are able to attract them into your live.

Many people make the mistake to look outside themselves for their soulmate. They believe they are broken and empty and need someone else to complete them, so they go around looking for somebody to fill them in. But the truth is, we are neither broken nor empty, we are already whole, with our without a partner. You are never incomplete, other than through any beliefs or thoughts you may have. It’s all within us already, we are complete, we just need to find it on the inside and our own oneness. When we find that, we are in the absolute perfect position to attract our true soulmate. You become a magnet to someone who matches your soul and you will be able to recognize them.

Relationships are actually multiplicative not additive. Most people think they are a half and need another half and only then, together they make a whole, because one half plus one half makes one. But actually one half times one half makes a quarter. In other words, when you try to get somebody else into your space in order to complete you, filling your loneliness or sense of lack, your screwed-up-ness, then you are inviting trouble. When two people come together who are already whole, they create together a larger whole and share their beautiful completeness together. A wholeness that's even bigger, than the individual one wholeness.

Each of us has a soul and we resonate at a particular frequency. When we search for a partner, we are seeking somebody who resonates at a particular frequency. So what we are sending out we get back. If you are desperate you will attract desperate people. If you feel broken and empty you will attract people that also feel broken and empty. When you are down and lonely and lost and feeling incomplete, then you are not going to be able to bring in your soulmate. Unfortunately many people also get muddled up because they think their mate should look like this, should do that, and should say these things to them. And sometimes they do and sometimes they don’t. Sometimes people end up finding their soulmate and they are right in front of them, but they are not able to recognize them… It also can be that you are ready for your soulmate relationship but your soulmate isn’t yet. And you wonder why you haven’t met or attracted them. Just be patient. The time will come. Be excited and get ready and it will come to you even faster.